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How can I make him enjoy sex with me again??

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Question - (18 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2010)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive been seeing my boyfriend for more that three years now. When we started dating we had great sex, but now theres just little foreplay close to none at all. Just when I start enjoying myself during sex, he stops. I feel that its more about him than us, I enjoy having sex with him, and I love him but I really can't take it anymore. When I try talking about it with, he tells me he needs to take a breather. Does this mean he stopped enjoying having sex with me? And if that could be the case then, how do I make him interested again.

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A female reader, Biancaaa.x. United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2010):

Biancaaa.x. agony auntit can't be you, it must be him, he couldn't just all the sudden not enjoy sex... way i see it, i dont see him enjoying it any more with someone else, unless they do it in a different way, so, what id do, id get aload of magazines like Glamour, company, cosmopolitan... they have alot of advice and sexyy tips in there to make sex alot different and new, for you and your partner. You need to do it a different mistery way, maybe... a strip tease? just get him into it, sit on him and lick his ear, boys love that!! alot more advice in like i said, magazines (: but if this don't work, then you need to go see some perfessional for advice... i hope i helped!

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A female reader, halibutfishnchips United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

Hold out on him for 2 weeks! Two weeks of nothingness should make him a little bit crazy. Act just a little bit bitchy towards him. Not mean, just a little bit. When he starts desiring you and chasing you again and with some level of struggle, you let him have you again, he's gonna take it a lot more seriously. Don't make yourself TOO available.

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