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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i am a married woman, but my husband is having an affair with other women and he's not ready to accept me as wife . and even don't talk to me. he hates me. there have been times i have lured my husband sexually but he does not respond to me. i have also become nude to lure him but he back's away immediately. please tell what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): If you're unable to leave himor divorce him for whatever reason, be it cultural or religious or whatever, you might consider taking a lover yourself.
If your husband turns his back on you all the time, but is having affairs with other women, and you're getting frustrated with the lack of sex, why not find it somewhere else?
I think that's what I'd do in your circumstances.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Hi,
The best way to attract him is to do what the other women are doing - ignore him more. Discover your own interests and find yourself as a woman and he'll come back begging to have you. And don't let him be with you whenever he wants. You have to make him work to be with you. He knows that you don't like that he has affairs anyways so you might as well be honest about it and tell him that if he wants to be with you, you want him to be with you only, otherwise you will not be happy and you won't give him what he wants. If you let your husband treat you like a doormat, he will never notice you. Become a person to yourself and he will see you as attractive and seductive as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Have sex with him when you know full well he's having affairs? Why would you want to do that?!
Why haven't you filed for divorce? Stop offering your body to this foul man and get rid of him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Concentrating on the sexual side of things only will not lure your husband back to you, there has to be a deep emotional and spiritual connection and a meeting of the minds....I don't know your culture, but I would end this marriage before becoming too invested, he is cheating on you and disrespecting you in the process. Leave him and be on your own for awhile.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (10 November 2007):
 Hi
Leave him!
Hes having affairs with other women?
I dont know what else to say really.
C xxxxx
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