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writes:I am a 30 year old woman who is involved with a man who is 65. He suffers from ED and does take cialis for this. The problem is my sex drive is still just so high and I seem to just never get enough of him when we are intimate. I have even turned down opportunities to be intimate out of fear that I would get frustrated that I am not being completely satisfied. What I am trying to find out is if there is any way that I can lower my sex drive? Is there a vitamin or herb or something? I want to have a sexual relationship but I also want it to be enjoyable for both of us and that doesn't happen because I always want more after we get started. Lets face it he is 34 years older than I and he can't help it if he can't perform like a 20 year old anymore. I don't blame him for this so I want to find a way to turn my sex drive done. Any advice?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (11 December 2009):
 Agreed. But neither a vagina or a woman is necessary for a male orgasm as well. It's a lot better, though. Back in the 1970s, a casual friend once suggested that in the future, most everyone will be gay. I doubt that, but if true, I'm glad that I won't be here.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 December 2009):
Well now, I must strongly beg to differ with you "satindesire" as a friend. A penis can have much more than "little or nothing" to do with a woman's orgasms. You can be sure that it is a wonderful asset for said purposes, but I agree that we should use every talent to keep women happy. My hope is that it helps bring about peace on earth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): I don't know how to stop your natural sexual urges, and they will only increase as you get into your 30's....I do know however, that a lot of relationships don't survive a disparity in sexual drives. Where you looking for a sugar daddy? I'm curious why you would want to date someone that much older than you. I have to imagine that it's not JUST the sex drive that is unaligned....what about your energy level in general? Do you enjoy being a lot more sedate than most people your age?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 December 2009):
Well I don't know how to temper the sex drive of a 30-year-old woman, and lol, it never would have occurred to me to try! But as a 62-year-old man (also with ED caused by meds) who has dated some much younger ladies, I know that one solution is to find innovative ways to please them.
My solution, whether with younger or older women, is simply to first provide ample foreplay and enough oral satisfaction to drive them crazy and wear them out with multiple orgasms. It works, but requires skill and dedication. But I know of no other way to satiate a young (or any) woman's sexual desires other than to fulfill them.
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