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writes:My best mates has been going out with a long term mate of mine for over 4 years. We are all good, long term friends, including my bf (and yer I am gay), well all get on really well as a group. But one night me and my best mate's gf went out with some other people into town, clubbing etc and got completely hammered!I'd be lying if I said that I can't remember much of what happened that night.. that's how drunk we were. Anyways when I woke up the next morning I found myself, naked, with my best mate's gf, and she was naked to. And there was a used condom on the floor.I can't remember sleeping with her at all! I sware on my life I can't, and neither can she. Nevertheless we had sex together. Obviously we both know that it was a HUGE mistake and therefore agreed to keep it to ourselves. But these last few weeks I am starting to feel more and more guilt about a) cheating on my bf . and b) cheating with my best mate's gf.Should I say anything, if so how.. or just keep it to myself, and therefore how can I live with the guilt?Please help.. thnx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): tell your boyfriend and best friend, they deserves to know. even if you try to keep it quiet, they will realise something is up0 and has gone on. its just happened to me, and i am grateful i know then to have been kept in the dark.
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (1 January 2009):
Keep it to yourself, and talk to your friends GF, and say that you think you both should just forgetthe whole thing. And hope it doesn't rear it's ugly head (sorry, no puns intended, here.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Keep it to yourself and pray it never comes out. Oh, and if you can do that you are bi, not gay.
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