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*uperwoman021
writes:my so called mate, has turned into suck a moody cow, ever since i got my first boyfriend, she tried to ruin it, now im finally with someone i love and care about she is still trying to again, and keeps acussing me of having mood swings, and bitching about me behind my back to my best friend, and its like have you looked in the mirror, i just want her to leave me alone, and get on with her life, shes going to college this summer so hopefully i wont see her again, but we used to have a group of mates and we where all close and she always swapped between us, and we gave in getting close to her cause he always bithced about us, so 3 of us went our own way and we soo close, and she went with someone else but she always comes back to us and bitches about her, its like get a life and leave us alone, how to i tell her that i dont want to be her mate and i want her to leave me alone and i never want to hear form her again..thanksx
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reader, The Shadow's Tears  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Hello,i agree that if you don't want to be her mate then just stop acting like her mate. but if she asks you in person why are you ignoring her. tell her the truth. "i can't take your b******* anymore" and leave it at that. if you say to much then it will be a bigger fight. if you just say a little. (hopefully not like i said it) and leave it alone. it will give her something to think about. but theres a risk to this. you see saying anything to her might break into a fight. or, ignoring her might do it. so pick you way of action carefully.hope this helpsX: Shadow Tears
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): If you really are not interested in being friends anymore you don't need to say anything. Just let her go: stop returning phone calls, if she confronts you in person excuse yourself and walk away. If things are really done there is nothing left to fight about. Just let the pieces fall where they may.
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