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How can I keep him interested in engaging in a phone conversation?

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Question - (25 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *lorie574 writes:

I just met a guy that I really, really like, and he likes me a lot too, our chemistry is great when we are together but when we are on the phone we have nothing to say, but we would text each other with no problem. Can you please tell me what are some things that I can maybe talk to him about, what are good conversation topics and how can I keep him interested in engaging in a phone conversation?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 November 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntWhat do you two talk about when you're together? Or what do you text about? Some guys just don't like spending time on the phone, and he might be one of them.

My recommendation is that you don't push him to talk or try to keep him on the phone; you may come off as too clingy or chatty and at this stage in the relationship, it's better to keep some mystery. You don't want to be too available before you two get to know each other a bit better.

So while I know you want to talk with him, just resist the urge to keep him on the phone for no real reason.

And I sincerely hope he's not hiding a girlfriend from you.

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

I had a similar situation like this with a man. He had another girlfriend.. He did not want her to know about me.

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