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How can I introduce this so early into the marriage?

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Question - (9 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2009)
A male Canada age 41-50, *unna_you writes:

hello aunty,I just got married 3 weeks back and am on my honey-moon,it was an arranged marriage (we knew each-other,our families decided that we should get married),now we are havign our honeymoon!! I have been fasinated by bondage sex and want my wife to try it on me!! I mean I being the slave and she dominates!! is it ok to ask my wife,or I may lose respect!! is it a good idea!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 September 2009):

Honeypie agony auntUnless you both have talked about his before marriage and before you started having sex, I would suggest you two to get to know each other a little better before bringing bondage to the table.

You could if you are a little daring suggest some mild stuff like blindfolds, but again, that takes a lot of trust.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

When writing a question use a question mark like this: ? Not an exclamation mark: !

If not then people wont take you seriously. I will give it an attempt anyway. Dont tell your wife yet. Unless you two get on amazingly well. It takes a lot of time to build up the trust needed for bondage, and the couple needs to be very intimate and know each other well. If you dont even know if your wife is interested in that, then you dont know her well enough yet.

Were you two virgins when you got married? If so: start with the basics of a good sex life, bondage is for the more advanced. In the end you have consider your personalities. How well do you know her sexuality yet? How well do you get along in bed and in life? 3 weeks isnt long time. But if she has a huge sexual appetite, then maybe you can tell her now. But go carefully about it! Some people find bondage a huge turn off and she might be disgusted.

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