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writes: Hi I came across this page and hoped someone may be able to help me. I'm going to give a bit of background as it may help with your advice. I've just returned from traveling with my long term boyfriend of 8 years. We were gone for 18 months we didn't work and spent everyday together and it was amazing. I was kind of surprised by this as lots of people told me it would be difficult. Before we went we were both working about 75 hours a week to save for the trip along with making time with friends and family and then each other as well. So we saw each other about 3times a week which is a bit different to 24/7. But it was a breeze and I'm even more in love with him now than I was before. We live in London with our respective parents. And we're back to saving this time for a mortgage, in London that means a lot of over time and not a lot of money. I really want to do something nice for him to show how much I appreciate him and how greatful I am that he works so hard towards our goals. But I'm strapped for cash (all my money is going to savings, we're desperate to live together) and was wondering if any of you lovely people could offer me some advice to show him on a budget. I know I should be able to think of this on my own but I keep comming up blank Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2016): You could plan a surprise day out. There are so many things to do for free in London. Some of my favourites are a picnic in the park at alexandra palace where there is a lovely view of London and a pitch and putt course which is reasonably priced (I think about 8 quid each) and British museum. You can also visit the sky garden for free and the houses of parliament if you are a British citizen (for the latter you need to email your MP). Or if you have a little cash spare how about a day trip to Cambridge or Oxford or Brighton. Another option might be to cook his favourite meal for him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 September 2016):
 You don't need money to show someone you appreciate and love them. First rule is to always tell him how thankful you are. Remind him off the great time you both have spent together. Make up a scrap book of photos and memories from your trip, something to have to look at when times are hard. Take him on a picnic. Go for a long stroll on the beach. Write him love letters about how much you cannot wait to get a home. It is nice to see you both work hard for your future. Spend the day looking at potential houses.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (22 September 2016):
 How are your creative skills? You could write a poem telling him how you feel about him. Or a song. What about a photo collage of your travels together. If you're not residing in the same house, why not write him a love letter every night, then post it on your way to work the next morning. They don't have to be long, just your thoughts of the day and a reminder of what you are both working so hard to achieve. You can't beat a good love letter! Hope this helps. Xx
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