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writes:I am 28 yrs old and been married for 6 yrs. i met my husband when i was 16. i have always loved him. we been having trouble. we argue alot. he never wants to cuddle or kiss.even when we have sex all he wants to do is stick it in. he never wants to kiss me or touch my boobs or anything like that.when i assk him y he says it is not true. i am over weight and always have been. i think he is not attractive to me anymore but when i say that to him he says that ant true either.so what is it.anyone got any suggestions
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): try to talk to him and ask him why..his your husband its normal to ask about what you want fron him..its not that your phisival aspect..consider him maybe his from work tired or other reason..dont be sensitive and negative about this try t think positive and make good moves..good luck...=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Most men I know love boobs and to kiss.It's part of who we are.General speaking I don't find fat to be attractive but thats just me.
I think this is different. I believe he is avoiding INTAMACY.
The closeness that is from appreciating all the good qualities in a person. Valueing a person for who they are not for what they have or what they can give.
I believe there is something else on his mind taking his emotional energy away from you and your relationship.
Just guessing work,porn,family issues another women could be anything.I would check his cell phone records and emails without him knowing to see what he is getting into.When someone's mind is elsewhere it shouldn't be hard to find out where.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): It sounds to me like he's losing interest in the relationship. Your best bet is to attend marriage counseling and to try and spice up things in the bedroom. Don't get me wrong its not that he doesn't love you, he's just getting bored. Act quickly in order to save your marriage.
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