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writes:my friend has a pile and she is too embarrassed by it that she does not want to even get her panty off when they are making out with the boyfriend. she says that she might turn him off if he say the pile and probably break up with her. i want to help her out with this problem. she uses Ansoul cream but its not helping much. she's been advised to go for surgery but shes too afraid. i want to help her over come this problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): I have no new advice, but just want to second the motion to push them back in with your finger. This worked for me also and I rarely have flair ups with them. In my case however, I had to use an over the counter steroid ointment to shrink the swelling and help ease them back in. It sure beats surgery.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 You can go to the doctors and try out those medicines and home remedies first . If she had it for a long time ,I don't think those medicines or change of diets would be effective.
She has seen a doctor and applied some cream and have been advised for surgery.
If her case is severe, only surgery will end her woes.You can learn more online ,Goggle it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): It depends what caused the Pile? If its a poor diet (low fibre and not enough pure water) then she will have this problem for life. If like me she had it after delivering a big baby, then it will disappear within a year. If its through too much anal sex then perhaps she should abstain? During my problems with piles, I would tuck them into my a**hole during my bath if I was going to have sex. I got this advice from a friend and it worked for me. After a while they just disappeared. So she can try tuck it in with a finger for a couple of months then go for surgery if it doesn't shrink on its own. Surgery in that area is nasty because you can't poop for a while. My gay friend had piles and was on a liquid diet for 3 weeks and couldn't sit. That's why most people just dont have the surgery and would rather endure them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the reply. i think i will agree with guillaume, thnks
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (3 March 2010):
You need to convince her to go for surgery.
Tell her that it will be a painless surgery .
Better to suffer for a few days than to suffer for whole life and maybe never even get the chance to marry or have sex.
Why have to suffer everyday when there is modern medicine to cure her?
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