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writes: my boyfriend and i have been living together for 6month now...and i am trying to get my babygirl use to our new home everything seems to be good but i do notice the relantionship between my bf and daugther isnt the best i would like to find a way for them to both get along bettr witheach afert all i love them both very much sooo please help what can i do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy baby is 8years old and my boyfriend has three kids of hes owen they r all much older now so its not like he has any babys other then hes 10 year old i sometime feel he doesnt make the effort to get close to my baby because i think he thinks i am trying to replace hes baby with mine. he doesnt get to see hes daugther much over issues hes exwife has with me...he was very close to hes daugther and now that i am in the picture they arent as close as they once where..i feel like he doesnt try to have some what of a relantionship with my kid because he is mad at the fact that he doesnt get to see hes owen kid i am not trying to replace hes kids with mine nnnooooo way but i am trying to have hem come around more my kid and treat her like hes little friend idk anything would work but he doesnt even try on getn close to my kid at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): How old is your daughter? I have two girls ages eight and two and it was hard when we first moved in with my boyfriend. He doesn't have children of his own and is not used to kids. But over the months he's gotten better with them and used to them and they have gotten used to him and we're almost like a family now. (Its been nearly a year.) So it does get better and easier :)
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