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writes:OK well my boyfriend is more of an asexual type. But I'm more of open to sexual things. We are both still virgins . and I'm not asking for help on how to have sex with him. I'm asking more in the way to make him open up more sexually. I really would like to start talking dirty with him but I'm afaird this would freak him out.I just really want to be a little more intamte the texts with heart emojji s. How do I approach this subject to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2014): I dated a guy like this, he was borderline asexual, I had a high sex drive. Even though I tried absolutely everything over the course of almost three years, I could not change the person he was. I ended up feeling like a Ferrari parked in a driveway. I'd suggest first having a open and honest discussion with him. Also I can see you are still in your teens, perhaps he just isn't ready? Best of luck.
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reader, Behavioural Analysis  +, writes (23 August 2014):
 Sorry, but you need to have a more mature view on this. Heart emojis in text don't mean anything - anyone can do it. Also, what do you mean he's more of an "asexual type"? He's either asexual or not. If you eventually want sex and he's asexual, you're with the wrong guy. Most asexuals don't want to talk dirty because it doesn't do anything for them. Don't try to open him up sexually if he isn't interested in it - you're just not compatible.
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (23 August 2014):
 you are only 16 or 17, you don't need him to open up to you about sex. you are both virgins, and your mind has traveled way beyond what it needs to. you don't need him to open up sexually, if you have a good relationship with him the dynamics of that relationship will change after you have sex with him. you have plenty of time in life don't rush it, don't give yourself regrets , don't give yourself heart aches to look back on. what i am saying you can't change the past, and when you mature in a few short years you will think more different than now. you will look back and wish you had not done the things you did as a younger girl. so my advice is don't even wake the sexual urges between you and your boyfriend. it will change your relationship, and more than likely cause a breakup.
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