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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend about 5 months and recentely started having sex, one problem he doesn't last even 5 minutes, he said it never happened with his ex so he doesn't know what he is doing wrong. He's been trying to get with me since secondary school and says he thinks it happens cause the way he feels about me its so strong. Anything I can do to help?!?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Kegel exercises. He has to work on that to make it work. You can go and search for that term online and I'm sure you'll find information.
In a nutshell, it's like exercising the groin muscles that anyone would use to try to "shut off" urinating before empty. Once he gets the idea, someone can practice it anywhere - while driving, sitting, in class, etc. and nobody knows you are "exercising."
Females can do it to strengthen their vaginal area and eventually be able to provide some very interesting sensations during intercourse, much like "squeezing" a penis in timing with strokes. Men can strengthen similar muscles down there to often forestall ejaculation until the sensations subside - that way a man should be able to delay a climax and continue.
Descriptions are also in various books, and the rest is mental.
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reader, leonard j. Douglas  +, writes (10 February 2008):
There is great Info on the Web that deals with his problem,but do look it up as a team,so you both can work on the problem. And even if in his other relationship there wasn't this Problem,it can and does happen to all men in theie relationships sooner or later
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