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writes:How can I give my fiance an amazing handjob? he currently likes it when I take charge and sit on top of him and use two hands on his penis, constantly moving them up his penis, then switching hands, kinda like juggling, this makes him cum pretty fast.. what can I do that will make him go even more wild, maybe a bit slower so he can enjoy it longer? He fingers me when I'm sideways on his lap, massaging my clit and inserting his fingers interchangeably in my vagina, and he finishes it off with my g spot..drives me crazy. I want to pay him back with a little something extra because he's so good to me and I love him. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): Stephanie - I've "examined" his penis a while ago, asked him what everything feels like, but I'm not sure about the glans. He's admitted it's very sensitive but when I touch it, he says it tickles and he ends up jumping and laughing, throwing me off him like a bull would... though it's cute it's not what I'm looking for. However the interesting thing is when his lubricant comes out of his penis SOMETIMES he will get tickled by it and other times he won't notice it as much... Does everyone have this kind of situation with too much sensitivity in the glans? Or is it just that the glans has to be really really lubricated?
Great tips everyone, keep them coming!!!
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reader, jiggles  +, writes (13 April 2010):
giving a man a good handjob is an art alot of women have forgotten.i love giving a man a handjob.i don't think doing one way over another helps,just try to enjoy the feeling of it in your hands,and he will sence that you are enjoying it and enjoy it more.watch the penis and learn its feelings.feel it swell,throb,and quiver as his orgasm approches
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reader, Stephanie Henderson  +, writes (13 April 2010):
Here ya go hon handjobs are my specialty You can run your fingertips over the head of his cock and then let them wander back down to home base. When doing this, make sure your movement is smooth and quick. Abstain from any sudden jerks though or other bumps along the way if at all possible.Next, head into second gear. Zone in on the slightly more sensitive areas, lightly touching the glans and corona, and the underside of his dick- the parts with all those lovely nerve endings. Place your palm on his glans and then close your fingers over it, spinning it around like you’re opening a peanut butter container. If you do this correctly, he should start to squirm with delight. This area yields a strange but wonderful sensation, so don’t be surprised if he tries to pull your hand away. But unless he says you’re hurting him, don’t let him push you off him yet. More than likely, he’s actually loving it.Following this, take some time out for the boys. While a man’s testicles are very sensitive, they are a deliciously large source of pleasure as well. Grab them LIGHTLY in your fingers and softly give them a little pull downwards. You can hold and very gently massage them for a few seconds too- if they’re big, tell him that. He’ll love it. Next, try picking them up SOFTLY and roll them up the underside of his shaft. This creates a sensation he’ll go berserk over. Whatever you do, whenever handling a man’s ‘berries’ be sure you are using great caution- a wrong turn (scratching, squeezing or applying too much pressure) could end the love making session faster than Paris Hilton says, “that’s hot!”Now you can slowly go into a stroking motion. Start gently at first, running your fingers all over his balls and shaft. If you want to, let them run all the way up to the top of his cock and pause there a few seconds before heading back down again.As he gets increasingly turned on, his cock will begin to disseminate a natural lubricant. This is nothing to worry about- it’s just the body’s way of moistening the canal to make it easier for his sperm to swim across to your eggs. (Thank GOD for birth control!) This liquid’s secondary function is to lubricate the head of the penis (just as your vagina self lubricates) to make it easier for penetration, and in this case to facilitate your hand job. On an uncircumcised man, this fluid gathers inside the foreskin keeping the head of his dick very moist. The smell of it alone can serve as an aphrodisiac for you much like your scent does for him! If for some reason this fluid doesn’t come out in time, though, don’t worry. Just grab a little hand lotion or body cream and rub it together on your hands (to warm it up.) This will serve as a perfectly good lubricant as well, and make it easier for your fingers to explore every curve and contour of his goods.One tip you should note: if your partner does not easily get an erection, or just if for some reason on any particular day, it’s not happening, try cinnamon. Cinnamon scented body lotion yields a mild burning sensation that gets a penis telephone-pole-hard in no time. Use it as a lubricant and throw a little on his testicles as well, and the half-mast flag will be proudly sailing in the wind almost immediately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): May also wish to google: hand-job advice - click the first website that comes up & watch the videos for more techniques. They use dildos & its very clinical and all - so no dodgy stuff :)
Most of the techniques drive my man wild - they might work for you.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (12 April 2010):
 The anonymous answer is right but incomplete. First of you are already doing the right things. Timing is the next step. You don't necessarily want to "stop", slowing way down is more effective. you have to be very aware of where hi is in his arousal cycle. You will likely take him all the way by mistake. It is good that you will be sitting on him. You may also need to tie him to prevent him from bucking you off. Not too tight he should be able to free himself in an emergency. Also use Safe words. You should do some serious research before attempting bondage the first time.
I think I read about this technique first in Alex Comforts book "the Joy of Sex". It really is very effective (read: mind blowing). It takes practice to get it right, or rather to gain the right level of control. As with any sexual activity you should get his consent first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): if you bring him just to the point of orgasm but stop just befor then continue to stroke his penis back to the point of orgasm several times over and over then when he dose finally cum it will be extreemly powerfull....the point is to tease him up to that! he will love you for it!!!
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