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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i love m bf we r plannig to get a house together but i see problems we dont get to spend alot of time together i no that he needs to work n he has 2 kids every other day for a couple of hours but now he does basketball after work n talking about going gym n playing rugby again n maybe b a doorman on the weekends and i dont feel like there will b any time for us, every girl likes a bit of romance now n again i have been with him for 6 months n the only thing he has done that i have asked is spend nearly 1 full day with me and be romantic i got a few candles n a back massager for half an hour we only get to spend 2 nights a week together at his sisters n we dont really get to be alone n i want this to work but ever time i keep trying to tell him how i feel he says im going on n on, i do everything he ask i cook for him clean up after him and wash his clothes but i no he loves m but i dont no how to get him to wake up n be more dedicated to our relationship like everything else he does plz help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Why move in with the guy when he's not looking after your feelings even now? Wake up and don't put yourself through unnecessary pain!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Sounds like he's making plans for just his own future and looking after his own needs! Why would you even consider moving in with a person that puts his needs before yours? You have been together for such a short time, and you said your not even alone much of that. It doesn't seem like you have built a strong enough relationship to move to the next level. With all due respect, maybe you need to give yourself a wake-up call !
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