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anonymous
writes:hi, ive been going out with this really nice, really good looking girl for around a month now, and ive tried to step the relationship up, but i find myself to nervous to kiss her and so all we ever do is hold hands etc...is there any advice that you can give that could give me the confidence too do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): haaaah, you're like my bf. i had to kiss him firrst. but just talk to her about it like online, be like are you ready to kiss? and if she says yes then be with her, hold her hand. then look at her likee smile at her and stuff and just chill out and do it. ahha i sound corny or whatev but forrrreal man. you need to grow some balls. lolllllll good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): yeah alcohol is perfect for this sort of problem..... your confidence goes sky high! Seriously considering your age not a good option so i recommend just believing in yourself. You have this great girl and you're liked by her so you must be a pretty good guy. remember that and you should be fine. Maybe practise a bit before hand in front of a mirror or if you want ask siblings for advice - they know you better than us and also are the easier-to-talk-to option than your parents.
Good luck
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (6 January 2008):
hi hun!
im 13 too and have just started going out so i no how ur feeling.
hav u tried kissing her on the cheek? i find thats quite nice. at the end of the date hug each other, say bye and while you're hugging give her a kiss on the cheek. im still too nervous to even hold hands!! so youre a lot brave than i am
good luck
please feel free to mail me about anything else you wanna talk about
lol
ellie
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): my bf told me that was how he felt before i first kissed me. i dont know if most people do this but we had talked about it the prior night and when i saw him the next day, he kissed me. if u want to talk with her and ask her if it was okay, im sure that would be fine. i didnt mind when my bf asked me.
best of luck!
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (6 January 2008):
 well. try talking to her. i dunno.. maybe sit her down. tell her how you feel, but also that you dont want to move to fast for her or do anyhting that she doesn't want to do. she'll probably ask " like what?" then you can say kissing etc etc.
seriously. she's your gf. if you can';t talk to ehr about it who can you?
thats really all i could say, plus that way you save face too
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reader, AJ jess ^..^ +, writes (6 January 2008):
 are you nervous cos your inexperienced or because you dont know how she feels, message me back and il give you a few tops dont worry hun x
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