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How can I get the message to my bf that I am ready to have sex??

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Question - (16 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *abygirl91 writes:

I Have The Biggest Issue In The World Right Now I Need Help ASAP!!!!!

I Was Over My Boyfriends House and and I Was Sucking His Penis He Cummed In My Mouth and and I Swallowed A Little Bit Of It! It Wasnt That Bad and All But Im Ready To Lose My Virginity To Him and and Everytime I Get Into The Position To Let Him Stick It In He Freaks Out and and Pretends To Hump Me Which Annoys The Heck Outta Me!

What Do I Do To Get Through To Him That Im Postitely Ready???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008):

Sex is sex, sucking his penis is a tupe of sex called, Oral sex, so even if he didn't lick you pussy, you still Gave Oral Sex, so hate to break it to you, if you wanted it to be special, sicne you sucked his dick, you and him are not Virgins anymore.

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A male reader, Samhamss United States +, writes (16 June 2008):

Talk to him, ask him if he is ready for actual intercourse, some guys are frightened by the idea. You need to actually tell him that you are ready for sex. Then if he is also ready, well, then have at it :). You need to let him go at his own pace. If he is not ready for sex, then you should respect that. I know the feeling, my girlfriend and I have the same problem, I'm not quite ready, but she respects that. Relationships are more than just sex, you need to learn that compromises must be made for it to work out.

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