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writes:hi everyone. im living a situation at the moment in which my best friend is going out with a girl ive been obsessed with since 2 and a half years ago. no matter how hard i try, i never seem to get over her since she is oen of my closest friends. she seems like she never wanted a relationship with me so things are getting really wierd. what hurt me the most was that i didnt know my friend liked her and so i was seekign advise from him and he never told me he did. i am lost and i dont know what to do or where to turn to. how can i kill the pain? thanks to anyone who helps me
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reader, redsox29  +, writes (10 January 2010):
Well if you were talking to your buddy about this girl and asking him for advice, and then he started dating her, he's an ass. There is an unspoken buddy rule that you just don't do that. He broke it.In these last two and a half years, why didn't you ask this girl out? If you have known her for that long, you should have been able to pick up a clue if she was into you or not. You can't kill the pain, it'll take some time. Trust me man, you are young, there are going to be hundreds of women that you will meet and crush on. I know that it may seem like she is really special, and I'm sure she is, but there are beautiful women everywhere. I'm not advocating that you go out and jump on any girl you see, but do some things that you enjoy, hang out with some other good friends and you will be fine. This girl may not even be a memory for you in 3 years.
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reader, Advice Giver +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Tell her, and your friend, it's a BIG risk, but if you never try, you'll never know. But tell her after they break up or find a good time. If you don't you'll regret forever.
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