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writes:How do I increase my self-confidence? I was valedictorian of my high school and captain of the football team, but I can't help feeling like I'm a huge loser. I mean, I've never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, didn't go to prom, never held hands, kissed, etc. It's not like I'm socially awkward or anything, just shy. It seems that a task that most can do seemingly easily (get a date) I haven't been able to do. How can I help myself?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Do you have a girl in mind at the moment? If not join a club or organization and start meeting people, people you have common interests with. Once a lady catches your eye you will have to take a deep breath and ask her if she would like to grab a cup of coffee or have a drink with you. Whether she says yes or no remind yourself that nothing ventured nothing gained. The more you do this the easier it gets. Happy hunting!
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