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writes:I was wondering how I could get over love. I have found myself constantly depressed and lovesick thinking about the person I love. Nothing will ever come of this love I have for him, and I want to build our friendship without thinking about the situation. I sit down at night and listen to sad music while thinking about him, and I just get even sadder. Is this normal? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2007): Time really is a great healer. I am currently in the same situation, I'm in love with a girl who's in a relationship and so am I. The only way I could deal with it was to break off contact completely and hope to forget her. Not only did I lose a great friend but the girl I've only ever truely loved.
If I was you I wouldn't do as I did and if I had my time again I would of told her at the start. At least then you both know were you stand and hopefully you'll feel like a weight has been lifted.
Wish you the very best of luck and hope over time things get better. Just remember you're not the only one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2007): depends on wether u can handle being just good friends.If u genuinly can then fine, but if u r honest with yourself & cant - better to move on as in time u will 4get him & meet sum1 else u care for.U r young yet.
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