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How can I get over my confidence and rejection issues to ask her out?

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Question - (17 August 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2006)
A male United Kingdom, *avid231983 writes:

Hey PPL!

Well er here goes,last monday i started a new job and during the afternoon of our first day we went on a tour of the offices where we'll be working after training and there was a girl who worked there and well she was totally intoxicating,really pretty!,i never actually spoke to her but in that short moment she had such a wicked affect on me...to cut a long story shorter,we left work today early cos of a problem with the computer systems and im ashamed to say i missed a golden opportunity to speak to her and introduce myself as i found her waiting for a bus home AT MY BUS STOP...DOH!!!, i have confidence issues and a fear of rejection and they are really holding me back,what do you think i should do?

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A male reader, David231983 United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2006):

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Well ive just got back from my hols and well i still haven't spoken to her yet but some ive been told she has a boyfriend,this news has really hit me hard,im really disappointed but it wont stop me being a friend to her when my training is over and i go and work near her in about 3 weeks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006):

Baby Girrrrl it's all about the way cool group! Am I right, or am I right?! ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006):

Just do it! Get Brave, get bold. This life is amazing and wonderful and full of oppurtunity to be happy.

Ask her out, she'll be flattered. If she isn't available...at least she knows that there is someone out there who likes her and thinks she is amazing!

When she comes available...you will pop in her head.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006):

I have this uncontrolable urge to sing..

#magic, moments!

#when two hearts areee shariiiiing!

Go for it David! and just before you do, have a moment in the toilet, look yourself in the mirror and repeat "I AM WAY COOL!" You have to say it and mean it - no cheating ok? ;)

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A male reader, David231983 United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2006):

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Well i did'nt see her today but im gonna go up to her floor tomorrow and we'll see what happens

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A male reader, David231983 United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2006):

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Thanks for the advice Baby Girl, when i go back in on Monday i'll talk to her normally and as you said i'll compliment her on something like the way she has her hair that day. Thanks again i'll update monday night!!!

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