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How can I get my uber-shy guy to be a bit more chatty?

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Question - (29 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

How can I get my not-so-chatty boyfriend to become more

talkative around me? He's pretty talkative over the

phone, but in person, he's, like, uber-shy. Why do you

think that is? Am I doing something wrong? Any advice

is GREATLY appreciated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

He might be nervous, and at the same time, tongue-tied.

He might be self-conscious and doesn't want to take the spotlight. I suppose it could be almost anything. Some people are better on the phone then in person, and maybe try to dim the lights to see if this has any affect. If it does, then he is shy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Aks him questions about what you see. whats around you . tv shows . ask him about things he's interested in and then go from there . talk to him about that stuff

I hope I helped :)

*~VG~*

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