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writes:Im worried my husband doesnt want to have sex with me he says he is tired all the time we do have sex on a saturday and its just the same nothing changes i love him fancy him and lust over him its just that i dont want a predictable sex life i have tried talking to him and he just says he is tired i trust him completeley i just want to have sex more.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (7 November 2011):
 He may be experiencing low testosterone( not a big deal really)He can talk to his doctor or search the internet as there are a zillion"treatments out there. Or you could seek therapy. But it sounds like he may just not be all that interested. if that's the case then you could get very creative on luring him into a situation where he can't say no. nd I know you can figure that one out without any advice. Women know instinctvely how to seduce a man. We are the weaker sex when it comes to denial of sexual activity. We can be seduced very easily. So, the ball is in your court...take him down!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (7 November 2011):
 You should try talking to him more seriously and don't let him end the conversation with "I'm just tired." You should tell him how you feel and that you feel your needs aren't being met. Don't criticize his behavior as that will guaranteed make him clam up, just stick to talking about how it makes you feel. If he won't try to work things out, you may want to consider couples therapy.
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