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writes: ok. I met this boy who is best friends with my best friend. He lives in algeria while i live in philadelphia. we have been working on this long distance relationship and it seems to be going great. we are in love. butttt his big brother is in philadelphia and he says "You guys aren't in love. You haven't even met" Hes a very complicated guy and feels all women are bitches. He was heartbroken when he was younger. Feels I will do the same to his brother. Please!!!!!!! Help me!!!!! How do I show him that I truly am a kind person and only want the best for the love of my life.
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reader, James_Michael +, writes (8 August 2010):
Personally, I think your relationship isn't a proper relationship either if you have never met and sealed the deal. And to be honest, I agree with him in the nicest way possible you have not ever met which can't really mean everything is all perfect. I don't agree that women are bitches, I have a girlfriend of my own, who is most certainly not a bitch, I love her to pieces, he is wrong and out of order to say such a thing. If you have to make an impact, invite him over for dinner and let him meet your family and let him see what family you come from and show him that you do 'love' your partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): No offence but you are pretty young. You will not yet know the feeling of being in love. What you've got is puppy love. When I was 15 I thought I was in-love and cried for days when he broke up with me. 2 years later I met the man I'm now married to and believe me I am In-Love!! I wouldn't worry too much about his brother because if it is meant to work then what his brother thinks wont matter!! In every relationship you will have there will always be someone that makes you feel bad about the relationship but don't worry because if it's meant to be it will be
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