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writes:I decided to leave the man that i used to date the last year after he made clear that he doesn't want a commitment with me. Now i start dating another man that seems to be interesting in me. However, i haven't forgotten the ex-boyfriend yet. I am afraid that this will have a bad impact to my new dating. I am dissapointed from the relationships and i don't think that the new one will progress happily. How can i disappear the bad feelings and be more optimistic about my new dating? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank you for your answers and the time spending answering to my question. Your answers are helpful. I would like to explain to my dear baby duck that of course i am looking to find someone that he is compatible with me, that i enjoy, that i trust, that i am physically attracted to ... and i am not only interested to
a committed relationship but i can't feel real interested to a man that he will say to me clearly that he isn't interested for a serious relationship. I think that i will loose my time with such a man. I don't know if i am wrong and i would like to hear from you again.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Dear Anon
Instead of enjoying your new friendship, you are already comparing him to your old boy friend, which is the wrong thing to do, forget about the ex, two people are not a like you could be spoiling your chances of having a wonderful loving and caring relation ship, if this guy is Mr right then you have ruined your chances of being happy and loved,get rid of the baggage and let this new guy show you that all people are not like your ex,
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