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writes: Ok well I have a problem... I have a best guy friend and he has a girlfriend, ever since he got this girl shes been a total jerk to me and is trying to ruin me and his relationship. I havent told him about this because im afraid that itll just end up in a fight. But its really effecting us. How can i get everything back to normal? What should I do?
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (22 November 2007):
You should talk to the girl. Ask her why she is being mean and assure her that you and your friend are just friends. It sounds like she's just insecure and thinks that because you are close with her guy, you will try and steal him, or he will want to be with you. Once you talk to her and make her understand this is not the case, things will get better =)
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reader, muffy +, writes (22 November 2007):
trust me shes doing this because shes jealous that you guys are good friends.shes worried that youll get in the way of their "alone" time.tell your best friend whats going on calmly.dont be like "OMG YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS TRYING TO MESS UP OUR RELATIONSHIP BREAK UP WITH HER!!".lol dont do that but just talk to him about how you feel and whats going on.if he still doesnt like what he's hereing from you then itll be his fault when your not around to talk to him because he belived his gf instead of his best friend.he would be making a big mistake then.lol.just dont go crazy but talk to him about how you feel.ok.i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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