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How can I get closer to him and become better friends?

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Question - (8 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ah mouw writes:

Well, I just met this guy, and he have photography in common so we talked about our cameras and shooting and what not for a while... I became interested quite quickly...Which has never happened before so it's sort of scary... He offered to get together sometime and he said he teach me how to develop film. I said it would be great if he could do that, but I've been too nervous to talk to him since then. THIS NEVER HAPPENS!!! I don't even know how he feels about me. How do I become closer with him and become better friends and so on? I usually subconsciously attract guys so I don't really know what to do now that I'm actually paying attention. Help!?!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

Ermish...

Why don't you try and get his msn, facebook or something? That way before you type an answer you can think of the best thing to say.

Obviously you can't stay like that forever. Why don't you just tell him that your nervous?! That way he'll understand and probably think its sweet.

Maybe the fact your paying attention is another sign that your growing up a bit?! Maturing?! Its all good.

As I said communication is the key here, and you need to either tell him your nervous, tell him how you feel or get over being nervous.

If your nervous your worried, and if you can do something about being worried, you have to do it. If you can't, then don't worry because you can't do anything about it. Fit in how you feel to the reason why your worried and what you can do about it.

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