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writes:I want to share my story I am14 years old and I am a girl , my female teacher she came new at school I first fell like I have a crush but then now i have noticed that I love her , so ofcorse I didn't tell her but unfortunately , she had to go out of school so when I sent her a message on facebook and asked her she told me that she loved the school but she had to go because she have a baby son and now whenever I am at school I feel depressed whenever I pass by her office what to do help , how to forget her ??????
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 October 2012):
 You get on with your life honey... it will pass with time.
walk a different way in school so you don't have to walk past her old office.
get busy with school activities and friends and school work and homework and sports...
don't wallow in it... don't punish yourself for thinking of her but don't set yourself up to do it either... keep busy with friends and family... avoid things that make you think of her...
it seems like it will never stop hurting... write yourself a long long letter about it... SEAL it in an envelope and put it in the bottom of a drawer... open in in about 5 years.... you will be amazed at how you have changed...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2012): Hi, I'm a 42 year old female so I might have some "life knowledge" I could pass down to you.First of all, let me acknowledge that I understand what you are feeling. I too had a HUGE crush on a teacher when I was in 8th grade. He was cute, he paid attention to me, and he was an overall, a great guy! I obsessed over him. I thought about him constantly, told my friends, and I even went by his house one time!Luckily for me, he WAS a great guy and did not pursue me. When I showed up at his house, he was outside. He said Hi and I thought he brushed me off. It took me a lot of years to realize that he was brushing me off because I was a child. He was a good man with a wife and a child. I know he was a good man and now that I'm an adult, I can find a good man who is not interested in a child. If he had done anything with me back then, we would both be worse off for it. Trust me on this one. You are not wrong for having loving feelings toward a teacher but she would be very wrong to take advantage of you in any way. I know you're confused but let her go. Keep her as a good memory of a good teacher and friend. She did the right thing.
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