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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I really still care for my daughter's father. He gives me mix signals about us, tells me he brags to his friends at work about me but then...he says our relationship is over. It's all about our daughter. But his actions tells otherwise. I bring up the past because I have questions that wasn't answered. Yes, he's cheated on me but I would like to get an answer to why? Famous answer, I don't know. He's said somethings that are really hurtful so I returned the favor by doing so. I've said things to him that really got to him. I've put him down but after I calmed down, I apologize for what I have said to him. How can I move on forgetting about him if he's telling me one thing, showing me another and bragging to his friends about me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): The only way to move on is to keep him out of your life for good. Not easy when you have a child. Just make arrangement for him to see his daughter which don't include you being there and try and work out a routine that fits around everyone, so no-one, especially your daughter, gets hurt. But for you to be happy, i think you need to stop including him in your life at all. Move on.
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