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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and i have a problem. I asked him on a scale of 1-10 (this is childish but) how much he trusted me. I had my mouth open when he told me four. He said he starts out with no trust in people and they earn trust unlike me who trusts almost anyone. Please help. How do I earn his trust? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2005): He was being being very honest with you and I give him credit for that. He's being very wise as he knows what 'trust' really is. You both have been in a relationship for just a very few months. Total trust takes much longer for many people to build as trust is the core foundation of many relationships and it's the key element very to building a long lasting, healthy, solid love relationship. Give him some time as he's being cautious and is getting to know you and what makes you tick. You earn his trust by always being respectable, kind and not doing anything like lying or decieving him. Love has no room for deceptions of any kind, dear. Just keep enjoying his company, keep talking, be honest and always display niceness, respect for yourself and others. Love and Trust go hand in hand...give it time. Good luck and best wishes, dear.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (18 November 2005):
 I would think just stay honest and faithful and you shouldn't have a problem earning his trust. If this is how he is, you can't change that or hurry the process. Maybe something happen to him before that enables him to trust everyone like you. For some people it's hard to trust just anyone. Don't worry about it, at least he's being truthful with you.
Good Luck!
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