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writes: I have been married almost 25 years. 21 of those being beautiful, then my husband went out of control with his gambling. In the last 4 years I have asked him to move out 3 times (this on being the 3rd).This time it is worse then the others. He won't talk to me or see me. He comes over to get his mail and such when I am at work. All I ever wanted to do is make him see what he was doing to the both of us, and to help him with his problem. I don't want to give up on him and I won't. I need some advice on if this is normal behavior and what to do. I spend most of my days thinking of him and praying that he starts thinking about what he has done and to try to make amends. I will help him in any way to quit this habit. Thanks for any help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): From his standpoint, he is thinking that he doesnt want to keep coming back if you keep abandoning him. And there may be shame from being such a big loser.I dont know why you kicked him out but you may want to reconsider the words you used and let him know what kind of relationship it is that you are willing to have (I really wasnt clear, maybe he isnt either)
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