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writes:I hear so much about people who do not think relationships with with large age gaps work out. Keeping in mind that we all know someone somewhere who has found someone many years younger or older than them. My Girlfriends grandparents were 8 years apart, and me when her grandmother was 16, and grandfather was 24. They've been married for over 35 years happily. In our grandparents age it was alright between people. Me and my girlfriend are 8 years apart. I'm 24 and she is 16. We both communicate very well, and we love one another very much. We have everything in common and share all the same ideas and goals in the world. I never thought I'd find someone her age, because of mine. I didn't agree with people dating with this kind of age gap, but now I find myself here. We're amazing together, and date openly to the world. Our friends are mixed up and mixed ages, and everyone accepts us and is happy for us, because we're in a real relationship. Unlike what you might think. When I see her, I see a love like no other. We fall into place, and over the months, I'm in love oddly. She is amazing and in every part of my life, and works harder to make me happy and have fun, than I am even capable of at times. She's our foundation, and sometimes more willingly the foundation of our relationship than I always am. She sees her entire life with me, and knows of the challenges we face. She's a smart girl for her age. I'm her first everything. She's still a virgin, because I don't desire anything aside from what we have now, until we grow. Well, her mother is the challenge. As always is with our situation. I'd like. No, we'd like any advice on howwe could earn her mothers trust? How we could tell her we're together, and show her that we're not the cliche couple. That I want only to love and protect her daughter and share my life with her. We think her mother already suspects us, and she sometimes says she doesn't want my girlfriend near me yet, but she does allow us to talk, and we still see oneanother and date, and share friends and life anyways. We just don't like lying to her,and want toface this challenge head on. Can anyone out there give us any good advice now? About how we could attempt to make things right, and try to talk to her mom, and work this out?
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reader, kiki_24us +, writes (16 January 2009):
Well this reminds me of when I was only 16 and my Ex was 25, my mother never agreed because in this day and age it is judged by our peers that older men that seek younger girls only want to play a controlling mind game, which is not always true! You two together will go through so much (I think more you then her) and maybe her mom wants to keep her from getting her heartbroken! You need to just be a very strong Man and just talk to her mother put it all out on the table the worst that can happen is that she still want except it the way that you pour your heart out in this cry for help shows that you really could be a Man in Love with a very young girl just remember she is a young lady and deserves to still be able to live her younger years for you have had a chance to hang with your friends when you turned 21 I guess a long story short let her still be a teenager! You can not expect her to act your age all the time and these are the years that she will never get back so just let her be her! Be that stand up man that you sound like and just put it out on the table!!!!!!!
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