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How can I discard the lingering feelings I have for her so I can be her friend?

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Question - (7 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've had feelings for my best friend for quite sometime now..I know it won't work between us yet I can't get rid of these feelings I have for her...it makes it a little awkward for me when I am hanging out with her, I want to be able to discard my lingering feelings I have towards her, so how can do this?

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A female reader, Benny 1494 United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2008):

Benny 1494 agony auntI know exaclty how you feel I'm going through the exct same thing with my best guy mate. Who also went through the same thing with another girl a while ago, i havent managed to get rid of the feelings but my mate managed to however it ruined teh friendship,

My advice would be to talk to her, let her know what's going on, that way she understands, then try spending time away from her hang out wih a new bunch of mates for a couple of months. This should hopefully sort out yor feelings. If you dont wantto do that, then just ignore the feelings [easier said than done i know]

Hope i was some help,

feel free to message me and if you really need help i'll tell you how my mate delt with it.......

good luck! :) x

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