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writes:Okey my problem isnt a really big one but a good answer will really help me in my situation.i want to give my boy friend the best blowjob ever and i kno this question has been asked alot but i need some tips on how to deep throat with out feeling like i want to be sick and gagging, we have a great relationship and he pleasures me alot and i want to do the same to him.hes comin back from a holiday on sataday and i wanna make the day and night very speacial for the both of us and when we go bed i want to make it sensational, so please any tips,advice would be really appriciated. (:
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reader, hillaryduff  +, writes (9 November 2011):
There's a lot of mystery surrounding deep throat because not many women know how to do it. Only a privileged few ladies have the guts and the where with all to try it, learn it, and use it. Are you ready to join their dark ranks? Are you ready to gain ultimate blow job power? Read on then. Knowing how to deep throat a guy gives you extreme sexual power. Once a man sees his entire cock going down your throat he's yours forever. No man will be able to resist your charms. It's not as difficult to learn as you may think, but it will take some time and some practice, like anything worth doing. Once you've got it, you've got it forever, it's a skill that no one can take away from you. And you'll be able to dazzle any lover that you choose. Relaxation and practice will make you a pro at deep throating. That's why a quick lesson in relaxation is very important. When practicing you need to relax your body completely. You'll do this by doing some deep breathing, preferably into your belly, and also you're going to want to slowly envision all of your body's muscles relaxing one by one. (Search for Jack's Blowjob Lessons for more detailed tips) They may not all totally relax on the first try so continue doing it until you have all your muscles completely relaxed, pay particular attention to your neck and throat, of course. Once you've achieved this state you're going to want to take a banana, which you're already peeled and slowly work it into your throat. Work it deeper and deeper until you feel a gag reflex, now hold it there. Fight the feeling of choking that's come over you as long as you can. If it becomes to overwhelming then remove the banana and take a deep calming breath. Rinse and repeat as many times as is necessary for the gag reflex and choking feeling to come completely under your control. Check link for more tips - http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com/ Once you've got the gag reflex completely under your control you can begin attempting your technique on cock. You'll be amazed at how training your throat muscles makes it extremely easy. Watch the look on the guy's face and smile inside. You've got him now, girl.
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reader, Danii-N-Dale +, writes (5 November 2009):
Danii-N-Dale is verified as being by the original poster of the question Great Advice Guys
Well The Best Iv Got So Far Thankyou
Well it isnt my first time, iv give blowjobs quite alot really and i dont seem to get it deeper my boyfriend is pretty big and its hard to take it in as i feel i wanna throw up and i dont no if he feels me gagging but it isnt pleasent.
Anymore advice welcome
but people who have answerd already, be proud to call your self an agony aunt/uncle x
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reader, Legioness +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I find deep throat like learning to ice skate.. You won't get it the first time but if you keep working at it bit by bit you'll gradually be able to do it longer without falling, if you get what I mean? Practise makes perfect basically. Whilst giving him a blow job try just the once to begin with, once you've got it going a bit, and take in as much as you can, then go back to normal blow job, then try it again, doing it every so often instead of just going for it the whole time will help you get comfortable with it, and you'll learn to handle it easier eventually. It's like the same kind of concept with alcohol, the first few times you drink it you get slaughtered then you drink the same again and you still feel a bit with lol somewhat like an immunity I suppose :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): The head of the penis becomes VERY sensitive immediately after cumming. HE will probably either love it or it will be too sensitive and a bit painful if you suck the head after he cums. That one you will have to see for yourself because every guy is a little different but it's something to think about. Either way don't stop sucking/jacking the moment he busts the nut. Keep going for a bit and really pump him dry, gradually winding down. As for swallowing the nut its up to you. Some guys really get off on the idea of that but for just as many other guys it's not important. It always feels better to cum in a warm wet mouth, but actually swallowing the cum or spitting it out afterwards is a different thing to decide.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (4 November 2009):
 The anonymous reader offered good advice. You are very unlikely to deep throat during a first attempt, and it really does not matter. As mentioned, using your hands in addition to lips, mouth and tongue is enough to bring most any guy to a huge release. Few women I've ever known could actually deep throat for more than a stroke or two, but one position allows deeper penetration and shooting all down right away. Assume a doggie-style position in front of his erection, which extends (straightens) the throat. It works well if you are on a bed and he stands alongside. If he releases deeply, it goes straight down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): We'll he's going to have to be part of this learning curve, but I'd suggest learning how to use your hands to extend your throat. The idea is to wrap his cock with your mouth and both hands such that no air hits it until the bottom of your hands. Using lots of spit or lube make your hands as wet as your mouth and got to town. My wife is great at this, and I can't tell where her mouth stops and her hands start, and cum like a fountain.You also need to learn to let him cum in your mouth, you need not swallow (if you can 4 stars!) but don't immediatly spit it out and say "uck!"... be descrete.Also, learn to give a great hand job as well... variety is wonderful!Enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): Invest in a pack of throat lozenges - best invention ever. They numb the 'gag' reflex.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 November 2009):
Learn to control your gag reflex?
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