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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello every1 , this question might be not usual , but let me first tell u whats the situation . my ldr gf of 2 yrs jst broke up with me for no reason , she disapeared for 4 days and then got bk tellin me she doesnt need a bf anymore . she needs to focus on her career ( shes a model ), the thing is im crazy inlove with her and believe me guys . she loves me so much and i know that .anyway i cant seem to get over her , i mean im acting cool in my daily life but the thing is i wanna cry :S but i cant , somehow im keepin those emotions and pain inside me and i cant let them go out, i need to do that cozi feel so much pressure inside me , i wanna cry and feel bad for everything , just to release that pain and those frickin emotions!i would love if you guys suggest any ways in order for me to get over her , i cant stop thinkin abt her , whenever i have a spare time she comes to my mind and then i start feelin this pressure inside me .i cant stop comparin all other girls to her , its like shes a princess shes my everything, and im tellin myself that no other girl would be like her,idnt know what to do HELP !!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Ok it's always hard to get over someone believe me there is no correct way or no miracle it just takes time.
Try not and compare other girls to her, its to soon for you to look at other girls so just for now concentrate on yourself and dont go dating until you are 100% happy being on your own.
The main thing here is to keep yourself really busy pick up new hobbies or volunteer yourself to things and also meet up with your friends and do some fun activities.
If you need to cry then cry if you cant then maybe try talking to someone close to you and tell them how you feel.
Whats most important is dont contact this women full stop even on a friendly level it just wont work believe me, cut al contact delete all email addresses and social networking sites and delete her number. You need to remove her from your life before you can start feeling better.
Just give yourself time and believe me you will soon be feeling better and happier. Eat healthy and get regular exercise treat yourself good.
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