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female
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36-40,
*omNommies
writes:Im going out with this one lad for nearly a month now, I havent seen him for 4 weeks because he was on holiday, and last weekend he told me that he didnt wanted to come out because he looks horrible, when in my opinion he is gorgeous. The next day we had an argument, but in the evening everything was okay. I havent spoke to him since then, until last night. We were talking normally, like we used to, he said how much he loves me, and how much he misses me, and he want this relationship to last. But then he told me that it we wont work out to blame him, because he faild at relationships because he doesnt put the effort in. All I want from him, is to see him, thats all it is. Im not asking him for much. How can I convince him to try to put some effort into the relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): How can you go out with a lad for a month and not see him for 4 weeks?
Can you clarify?
Sounds like your not actually going out with him at the moment
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011): You have been going out with im for a month, yet you havent seen him for 4 weeks? Not much of a relationship... Maybe he loves you, maybe he dont. It sounds like he is making excuses not to see you, because a normal boyfriend doesnt care about what they look like around their girlfriends...
Just talk to him, and I am sure it will work out!
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