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writes:Hi, I was wondering what my options are for trying to contact my girlfriend ever since her mum found out that she was in a same sex relationship and read through all the messages between my girlfriend and I. It's really uncomfortable as I know have no direct contact to her through email or phone as her mum has blocked me from all contact. I know that my girlfriend was worried about her mum finding out about our relationship and some of the messages I received from her shortly before our communication was blocked showed that she was scared about what her mum would do to her, so I fear that if I try to contact her I could risk both of us getting hurt in some form. So what do you think are my best options for making sure she's okay and for contacting her without putting anyone at risk? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2015): Difficult question this one..because you clearly cared about your friend and to have her suddenly cut off from you must be very difficult especially as you feel torn between knowing she is ok and feeling you may never know.If you lived in the same town you could sniff around so to speak and see if she is still getting to places she used to go..but why not go in on a mission.Just get two willing lads and go an knock for her and say youre dating one of the guys and she was secretly dating the other and all the other stuff was just code because you ddnt want anyone to know you were dating anyone at all..by the time this extraordinarily diverse and devious method has been deployed you will get time to speak to your friend and make sure she is still all in one piece,not beat up,not tied up and not removed.Mum will be delighted her daughter has such nice friends and you can tell her that the idea of being a lesbian is disgusting to you..oh heck sweetheart, cheer up, you can call the police if mum is dangerous.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (21 August 2015):
Oh, I'm so sorry sweetie. What an awful thing for her, and you.
If you think she's in physical danger then you need to speak with a trusted adult ASAP! Obviously she doesn't have a good support system at home. Do you? Is there someone that loves and accepts you that you can voice your concerns to?
If you think she's in danger you should not try to contact her directly but should try to get someone involved that might be able to get her to a safe place ASAP. Is there an organization in your area that helps LBGTQ youth?
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