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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone. I just want to say before I go on with this story, I am not a pig. I just got out of a long term relationship and just want to have fun as a teenager (19). I just moved to a different state and living with my cousin. He is really good with women and has almost a different girl every night and has been with countless women. I have tried asking for advice but he hasn't really helped any. I want to know how to be successful with girls I meet in clubs. What is the way to approach a girl and start a convo in a club? I don't mind talking to new people, I just dunno how to start it off and what to talk about in a club setting. I don't find myself very attractive so maybe thats what is holding me back from meeting girls. I am not looking for relationships, just some fun. Judge me if you want. Even if it isn't in a club setting I still don't have to nerve to walk up to a girl on the street or a grocery store.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Totally understandable...to approach a girl in a club, if she's at the bar I would send over a drink, thats a classic one that got me every time. Then she's got to come over and thank u..Im not saying go broke, lol. but have some $ to buy the ladies one drink or two. Now if theyre already drunk then they need a water. In which i hope u wouldnt take home a totally wasted girl. Strike up a convo to the chic ur sitting next to, where u from where do u go to school at..u wanna dance to the next song. U just slide that question in there, and hey if the girls had a few (buzzed) then ur gyrating to the next song. Beware of the girls in groups never approach one of those in groups unless ur armed with a group of guys urself. Those girls and I love them will block every chance u get...it does happen. Dont be too creepster going up to the ones sitting alone bc there will be some, just act casual and very into her..Most girls are just looking for a hook-up when at a club but not all..be upfront with what u want. That is the most important, nothing worse than a guy not specifying if this is a one-nighter or not. Happy hunting!
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