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writes:I have a few different questions one is for all the girls on here.My gf said that none of her exs have ever been romantic and honestly I have never really given a rats ass alit a girl before. I'm ashamed to say that at 29 this is the first time I have been in a relationship that has last longer then a month or that wasn't used just for hooking up. I know nothing about romance but I really want to leave her breathless. What is the most romantic thing I can do for her? And really rock her world And secondly is it possible to date my bosses daughter with out getting fired or having to quite my job?
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reader, Mark1978  +, writes (13 May 2014):
 AmyMc21 wrote: "you can't get fired for having a romantic relationship with his (your bosses) daughter "No he cannot fire you for that BUT he can make life very bloody difficult for you. He can suddenly start picking up on every mistake you make, giving you no second chances and watching you for any indiscretion. You only need to be caught talking, being a few moments late, etc. He can also put your name to the top of the list of redundancies. I have seen it done. Upset the manager and he or she can decide that every horrible job that needs doing falls at your feet. Some of the mistakes you described in your previous post regarding the issues you are having with the boss could come under what many companies call "standards of behaviour". In other words, inappropriate actions outside the workplace which could compromise the integrity of the company, its management or your ability to work objectively. Its probably fair to say that your reputation as a lover of notches on bedposts preceeded you. Based on your previous "relationships" I think its fair to say a lot of men would be wary of their daughter getting involved. Your subsequent action certainly didn't help you to change that perception either. To be blunt, I think it would be foolish to have a relationship with the bosses daughter under any circumstances. But considering she is 21 and you are 29 and this is the first time you have had a relationship, as apposed to just sex, then I don't think you have the experience or maturity yet to make it work. From your previous post its clear that your adolescent, niave actions have already made you a sworn enemy of the father/manager. As the manager he can, if pushed far enough, find plenty of ways to fire you. I'm not sure what industry you work in and how influential he is, but he could make it difficult for you to find other work. Being fired never looks good at an interview. And what would you say if you did have to quit as a reason for doing so? You can hardly say "well I was banging the gaffers daughter!" Its time to start showing your partners more respect and privacy as your previous post about "accidently" letting a co-worker read your sexy texts from your GF, which were then read out loud, shows that you have yet to grow out of adolescent boasting and treating women as sex objects. Letting your boss hear you say to someone "he is mad because i'm constantly screwing his little girl" (or words to that effect) was both foolish and did little for your reputation as a man, a boyfriend or your chances of promotion. The damage is done. Leave his daughter alone, apologize and keep your head down.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 May 2014):
 You posted a couple of days ago about the problems you've been having with your boss over dating his daughter. You have made numerous mistakes and now her Dad, YOUR Boss, is furious with you. So do YOU think it is possible to date the Boss's daughter without serious consequences?
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reader, AmyMc21 +, writes (13 May 2014):
Do something youse have never done.befor together, unless she's just a normal girl who like simple things like myself she will just want a meal fee drink and a cuddle,
And for the boss's daughter you can't get fired for having a romantic relationship with his daughter he only way you'd get in trouble is if you do something stupid
Hope it helped
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 May 2014):
 Wilomo: I've spent my life making girls breathless simply by stripping and allowing them to see my smokin' body. It works EVERY TIME....
As for dating the boss's daughter... THAT, Sir, is HIGH-RISK.... and I wouldn't consider it UNLESS I knew, as well, that I could get the boss's WIFE interested in me!!!
Otherwise.... carry on....
Good luck...
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