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writes:Hi all...I know that this isnt a relationship question, but i just wanted to know if this would be a good choice. I am a twenty year old female and my breast have grown..but they havent even grown off of my chest. I am considering getting breast implants but im afraid of the risk....and that something will go wrong. I love myself and i love my appearence...I have tried so hard to accept that my breast are small and to be happy with them, and some guys say that they prefer small breast...but my breast dont even come off of my chest..im self concious when i wear a bathing suit, and i cant wear a pushup bra because i dont have anything to push up. I dont feel womanly at all....so im asking..How do you guys think that i can be happier with my chest..and should i get the implants?
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reader, Jaimed1972 +, writes (26 March 2009):
No stay natural. I love seeing a woman with small boobs in a bikini! I think it is hot. I dated a girl years ago that was flat chested and it didn't even phase her when she would put on a bikini. have you ever thought about getting a bigger bra and adding inserts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Thanks to the anonymous reader for your answer...I can see why you told me not to get the implants for a mans attention...well that's not the case..because I already get a lot of attention from guys...even when im not dressed my best..lol, but now that you have given me your advice I don't think that I want to get them...my problem was that I didn't feel womanly..but I don't think that I would feel even more womanly with two silicone bags under my chest..lol..so im kinda thinking that I might not want to go through with it.(:
Thanks for your outlook...I appreciate it(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Hey I'm one of those guys who prefers smaller breasts, but at the same time if I knew you and how this was affecting your self esteem I'd definitely recommend getting the implants. You need to be sure about it though and you need to do it for yourself. If you're just trying to get more attention from guys or trying to catch the eye of a particular guy then don't do it. But if you really think it will make you more confident by feeling more feminine and physically more attractive (and the cost is no obstacle) then absolutely do it, and don't let anyone stand in your way. I would just hate it if you felt like you had to do this because a guy(s) wasn't paying much attention to you, because frankly a guy that is only attracted to you because of the size of your chest is not worth it. If it's for yourself however, then why not treat yourself ;-)
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