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writes: Hi im 20 years old and i have a guy friend of mine who i work with who is also the some age. i have been crushing on this guy for awhile now. The only problem is that he is a real true hottie. i mean just drop dead got to get my hands on bod. He has alot of girls who are friends. My friend has already went behind my back and told him that i liked him and he said to her with a smile ah thats cute. He always gives me hugs even before my friend told him that i liked him. Hes really sweet to me and everything. I want to ask him to hangout sometime maybe as like a date but im afraid of rejection from him. I feel like i dont measure up to the other girls that he talks to. But then again i heard that im the only girl in the store taht he hugs besides this one girl but she is like a really good friend of his. Im know im pretty and everything but when it comes to him i just feel diff. My friend told me that she thinks he likes me and that he as already checked me out but i just dont know. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): sadly there is no way that you can ask him out without the risk of rejection its just a fact of life babes!.
But dont let that put you off, spend some alone time with him if you can, ask him if he fancies going for a drink somtime see how he reacts to that.
If he says yes then use this time to drop subtle hints that you want to be more than friends, you know a little bit of subtle flirting.
If he makes a move then you know that he likes you too, but if he does'nt dont worry, persist for a while men are a bit dim somtimes they dont always see the subtle hints!!.
hope I've helped.
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