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How can I ask her out without seeming pushy?

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Question - (29 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright heres the deal..

Theres this girl i like, and have liked for a while now, shes 15 and im 14. She is also a grade ahead of me. She said she likes me.. But heres where i get held up..

About 4 months ago i asked her out not knowing if she liked me or not and never really answered so i took it as a no. We talk alot now and she recently said she liked me.. but my self confidence isnt really there anymore. Alot of guys my age are taller and look more mature then i do, I've hit puberty just im a little on the short side still.. so yeah.. And i dont want to ask her out again seeing as she said she liked me 3 days ago and i dont want to seem to pushy.. Can anyone help me please?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 September 2009):

3 days is enough time! You'll just have to ask her out and see what she says. Leave it too long, and she might think that you're not interested.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

Well you could just get over your shyness and ask outright. Or tell her that you like her too then it would be up to her what to say to that and what to do next.

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A male reader, gamer United States +, writes (29 September 2009):

if you like her and she likes you than i dont see a problem.

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