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writes: My boyfriend broke up with me because he thought things were getting too serious. He says he loves me but doesn't want a serious relationship right now. That doesn't make any sense to me. How you can love someone and not want to be with them? So my question is how do I get him back?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Sounds like he is trying to let you down gently honey.
Move on, find someone who can give you what you really need.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Maybe he is telling you he loves you and does but just does not love you enough to have a relationship with you, and this is his way of finishing with you and letting you down gently.
You should not try and get him back if the relationship is over as it will just prolong the inevitable, once it it over it is over and maybe in time if you both feel you do love each other and cannot be without each other then love will be rekindled, but for now it sounds like he has thought it through and just does not want a relationship with you any more.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Not everyone is ruled by their heart. It is actually easy to love someone enough to know that YOU Can't give them what they need. Does he have goals in life that a relationship would complicate or end entirely?
If it is meant to be....when he is ready and you are ready it Will be.
Should you sit around waiting and hopeing....Nope.
It could be that the next one is your real true love or at least an experience you need to truly appreciate him a few years down the road. Never say Never.....but you can't force anyone to be ready for a relationship...and you should not try.
Do not chase him....Only fall in love with men who truly Chase YOU. Even in this modern world....that is one of the things that has not changed. (They must feel they have won a prize of great value if you want to be cherished...and being the one who tracks them and traps them does not make that happen)
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