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writes:i have been with my boyfriend a year now, and when we make love he asks me to tell him when i am about to cum but i never kknow myself and then when i do he ask me why i didnt tell him, how can i tell when im coming? Reply to this Question
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reader, Maria-consuela  +, writes (15 October 2010):
 When it happens, you will know.
The easiest way to describe it - or quantify one of the sensations specifically is a tightening of the muscles inside of you - the same muscles that stop a stream of urine.
You are still young and you have tons of time to figure this stuff out, and it is nice that you have a relationship in which you are able to communicate openly in this department. Give it time and like cgrlygo said - try out different things alone and see what feels good. That is the best way to learn and adapt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): it takes a min to get used to your body.. and getting to know when your going to cum isn't the easiest thing for a girl... so relax in time you will start to know the signs.. you could also try masturbation so then you get used to the sensations and learn to recognize them. :)
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