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How am I meant to stop thinking about her like this when she's my best friend and I see her all the time?

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Question - (17 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like my best friend a lot and it's really driving me mad. I keep thinking about telling her but it's pretty pointless since I'm not her type at all. But then I keep thinking 'what if...', it plays on my mind a lot and I really need to stop thinking about her. I thought about telling her just so I can get it off my chest but I don't want her to hate me and that's a pretty good way to get her to hate me.

I need to get over her. The thought of me ever having a chance with her is laughable and I keep telling myself that but still I can't get her out of my mind. It's like every time I see her or speak to her I'm reminded what a great person she is and why I like her so much. How am I meant to stop thinking about her like this when she's my best friend and I see her all the time?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008):

hey i know how you feel. i just posted a question saying almost the exact same thing lol... im dating a guy and i am really good friends with his sister... and i have feeling for her!!! i know what your going through. i wish i knew what to tell you!!! maybe things will work out for us!!

i hope they do for you!!!

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