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*xAngelDust89xX
writes:My husband and I have been married for a year and 5 months. We are very young and have a 9 month old daughter. We were very much in love when we got married, but it has gone downhill quite a bit since then .I understand that it could be stress, work and baby and all that, and i understand that all couples go thru this phase. What I am asking is a way to get his attention. My husband goes to work come home sits in front of the tv and goes to sleep. we never talk or cuddle or spend time together. he doest want to go anywhere or do anything. I feel as if he is bored wiht me and i want to bring the romance and love back to our relationship. I took him on a surpirse date a few weeks ago but it didnt seem to do much. I dont want to leave him i love him very much, and i know he loves me, i think he doesnt realize that i need his attention every now and again. Reply to this Question
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reader, xXemieXemieXx +, writes (31 May 2009):
walk around naked. he will atleast give you a glance im sure of it
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reader, Nick Man +, writes (15 August 2008):
???Alot of men are very indifferent about things--and your husband seems to be one of them. Indifferent men usually answer with "whatever you want, honey" "I dont know" "if you want" and so forth... ...But once you stumble upon something they like to talk about, then your in a good position.To do this, try to give him attention instead of getting his attention. Get to know his friends, as they should give you the information of his interests... Talk about things that he likes, ask questions. If he likes a certain show that is factual (aka how its made on discovery channel) ask about it. If he likes golf, ask about why he likes it. Get him to explain why he likes stuff. Become his best friend.If this doesnt help much, try this video. http://www.videojug.com/interview/communication-in-marriage-2
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