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writes: Alright, here goes, my boyfriend and I of almost a year and a half have hit a road block, and now it's up to him as to whether or not we are going to stay together or head out separate ways. We are young, true, and he told me that if we were like late 20's no doubt would he want to marry me, but right at the moment he feels that he's missing a big chunk on his life, how do i help him fill that without us having to go through the heartbreak of breaking up? I truly love him and i believe that love is undying if it's pure, we can work through this, but does it sound to you like he wants to? Or should i just not say anything like i haven't been and let him decide? I'm so confused i don't want to lose this relationship but if he's going to be contimplating forever about how he feels then i don't want to be hanging around and waiting until he finally just drops the bomb. I need some advice...-Confused PJ Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Christina, writes (30 January 2005): Dear PJ, What a dilemma. I think you should also read "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo. I think personally that he wants out or he wouldn't broach the subject. I think that you should let him go and watch what happens. If a man wants to be with you he makes it obvious. If he wants out he will usually behave in a "chicken shit" kind of way. The last thing a man wants to tell a girl is Im just not that into you. They really are strange creatures.Christina
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