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writes: i'm the person who wrote "My lovers wife found our sex tape, hes turned to religion and doesnt want to know me, but I cant be without him!" on 27th May. now i'm having another problem. the wife rang up my husband and in an abusive way said that i have been saying that he's having affairs with numerous women, dont u have any moral values? your wife is trying to spoil my life by seducing my husband. u better control your wife now before the situation is out of control'my husband just kept quiet. shouldn't we dismiss it as an insecure person's lament? my husband asks whether he should call up her husband. i feel sorry for that lady. i hope and pray peace will return to her life.please advice us what to do.
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reader, a4865 +, writes (2 June 2006):
a4865 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for the replies. yes, i know i'm at fault sleeping with her husband. but i believed in his love. that's the only reason i did it. to be honest, not for a 'fXXX's sake'. even the threesome was done at his insistence so that it would be easier for him to come here. i know he feels guilt for letting me down. but i dont blame him at all. he just didnt have an option. he called me today to apologize for what his wife had done. i said it was cool and he said he'll apologize to my husband too.whatever i never wanted to hurt his wife. in a way i was also using my husband's fantasies to my advantage. wish i could erase away everyone's pain.life has to go on...i will try my best to make it smooth for my family's sake.thanks again...
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 You go Dr pete! Couldnt have put it better myself!
I think you all need to move on, shes upset and hurt and needed to lash out. Hopefully you can all get back to your lives seperately. Maybe in time you will come to learn that what you did was a wrong and you risked wrecking alot of lives and caused alot of heartache!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): I guess you can't really blame her for bring angry. What you need to do is concentrate on you and your husband, not respond to their phone calls and you need to try and move on with your lives.
To be honest I don't really like the way you dismiss her calls as her being insecure; you slept with her husband for fucks sake - of course she is going to be insecure. You've made her do this, it's not her fault.
No your husband shouldn't call up her husband - you need to move on from this - not esculate things so the situation gets even worse.
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reader, camille +, writes (2 June 2006):
 I feel sorry for her too; that she was cheated on. Surely you can understand her hurt & frustration? She has every right to be insecure. It's nothing to do with you anymore. Whatever conversations they are having now are between them. If you wish her peace then stay out of it. Don't interfere in their marriage again, that's what started the problem. The situation already is out of control and she wants to hurt you back in some way just as you and her husband have hurt her. You are lucky you still have a husband, but all ties should be cut, so no, he shouldn't call back. Change your phone number, get on with your lives and live with the consequences of your actions.
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