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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am still unmarried and have a month long relation with a neighborhood boy much younger. he is around 17. he becomes intimate with me almost everyday. first I tried to resist him but nowadays I feel lots of pleasure from the activities. he now demands my first time with him. I am a bit scared as his thing is thickly fearsome. it must be too painful penetration for me. pl. help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Jmo +, writes (2 January 2009):
Have him insert himself slowly and use lubrication. As long as you're relaxed you should be fine.
He DEMANDED your first time be with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): It might not necessarily be painful. A woman's vagina can stretch to accomodate a thick or long penis. Have you actually measured him to see how thick he is? Also, you can talk to your doctor or gynecologist about it to see how big a size you could accomodate. As long as he is not more than 8 inches thick, or 10 inches long, you will probably be ok. In fact, it will probably be immensely enjoyable for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Let him slip in his fingers in first so you can loosen up so to speak.
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