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writes: i was at my b/f's mother's house. And--my boyfriend has his own car that hes been using and uses his mother's only once in awhile.His mother said suddenly to my b/f while we were eating--you left your shirt in the backseat of my car. And my b/f just looks at his mom and didnt really respond when she said this. And she said did you use the car recently? (The mother uses the car alot for the grandson)And my b/f didn't really answer--just kind of shrugged a little. But my b/f does not use her car during the week because his mom uses it every day in the morning and my b/f takes his to work. So--it made me think--did he use the car at night and was he with a girl in the back seat? I would think he might use the mother's car--b/c his car very easy to spot and is very different from most cars(take my word for it). I didn't mention it to my b/f and just let it go. Am i overanalyzing? If the mother uses the car every day and the babysit is in the back--then doesnt that mean he used this car recently since she found it just recently? Do i just let this go?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): Hi,
Im guessing that you may have jumped to the wrong conclusion. IF he had a girl in the back seat and took his shirt off.... would it not then be logical that when they are 'finished' he would put his shirt back on rather than drive home topless???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): A shirt in the back seat of a mother's borrowed car does not a cheater make, maybe he had been working, took it off because he was hot, or changed to a t-shirt....I would not read anything into this at all, you will see many other more significant signs if he wants out of the relationship, and is cheating, like broken dates, not calling, emotional distancing, arguing and fighting and blaming you for it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): hibe patient and wait it out, don't blow it up. what i mean is that, truth comes out in the end anyway. go on with your life and focus on things that you need to do or want to do..time will show you everything.
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